What Is Divorce Coaching?
Who is Coaching For?
Chances are, if you’re getting divorced, that you have lots of things going on in your life. Your career/job, your divorce, the loss of your shared friends, etc. Divorce coaching is a once-per-week session designed to help you get through all the complications, and come out the other side of your divorce a better, more fulfilled, and happy person.
Everyone can use a coach. It happens is every facet of our lives now, from our kids and their private coaches for sports, mentors in our work lives. Divorce coaching is the same thing, coaching from someone who’s “been there, & done that.”
1. Initial Meeting / Chemistry Check
All the coaching starts off with a meeting and chemistry check. If we don’t get along, then this relationship won’t work for either of us.
2. Coaching Plan Development
Every team has a game plan, do you? We will work together to develop the “game plan” for your successful divorce.
3. Moral Support
Just like your work, you need someone to partner with to produce your best stuff (unless you’re an amazingly creative person). We’ll get through your challenges together.
4. Combating FOMO
FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out), or in this case, FOMU (Fear of Messing Up). There are steps, checklists, plans, but, without someone by your side helping to keep track, you will most likely miss something. Your coach can help prevent FOMO/FOMU.
5. Moving Ahead
The last phase of your divorce, when everything is finalized, can be the toughest. You’ve lost a part of your life, and, you’ve lost something, that over the last several months (years in some cases) helped keep you focus. We will partner to come up with things to replace that loss.
I’m not a professional therapist. I’m not a professional psychiatrist. I’m not a doctor. I’m not a lawyer.
I’m just a guy, like many of you out there. Except I have already gone through the divorce, the therapy, the counseling, the “moving on,” and the success after the divorce. I learned a great many things throughout my divorce, which was contentious, involved children, false accusations, and many other things that a lot of you are facing. Thanks to a solid support group, an amazing family, and a few special people, I was able to not just survive my divorce, but thrive after my divorce.
I want to share with you how you too can not just survive your divorce, but learn from it, and move past this hiccough in your life and go on to more success.